Lessons I've learned..

There are some points in our life that we really want something or someone. We feel that we need to have it or else life will be meaningless. Which for me is really ironic because how much you want something, the more you cannot get it. Wanting something now doesn't mean that you're ready for it now or can afford to have it now. Life can never be easy, the best and worst part of life. That is why life is ironic, it makes people go crazy trying to figure out what to do.

I worry too much.. worrying about other people, worrying what the outcome will be. I worry about anything. And this makes my life difficult to live and enjoy. I realized that life is fun, if you live it the right way. Carpe Diem, sieze the day. Live life everyday to it's fullest because we never know when life will end. Stop worrying, just do what you want and be happy. Take risks, that is what life is all about. Live life how you want it to be not how people want it to be.

Friendships are to be nurtured and cherished. True friends are there for you no matter what. Friendships stand through the test of time. And I am glad that I was blessed to have this kind of friends. Through our journey of life, we'll meet different kinds of people, some can be just our casual friends, some can be our true friends. We should never judge, but we should not be foolish either. Find out for ourselves what a person really is, take time to find out. A person's true colors will always show in time. We need to give time to see the truth about anyone or anything.

Feelings can't be controlled. We should never force something and try to make it work out only by sheer determination. We should try to suppress our feelings, try our best to get over it, and overcome it... And if we're not able to do so, then that only means it just might be the real thing. But there is still the word "might", coz in a relationship it takes two to tango. One should be willing to get to the same place as the other one. A relationship is a shared thing. One may be ready and capable of doing and giving everything, but the person whom you want to build a relationship with should also be capable of accepting what is given. All relationships require resonable effort, not too much effort but just reasonable. It requires acceptance, and some work for all relationships to work. Relationship is about filling the gaps, bridging the difference and compromise. And to be able to do this, the most important thing is communication. While it takes two to tango, it only takes one to begin the process of communicating. Communication is hard for me, I was accustomed to just hide what I feel and suppress it as long as I can. But I realized that communication is really important for people to understand each other. Communication is a powerful thing. It can fix everything..

When the mind and heart are at odds, some people follow their heart hoping to find love. Some people follow their mind hoping to find peace. But it is only when your mind and heart agree that you'll ever find love and peace.